Even when bad things happen, you need to look at the good that is in it.
For example, on January 9, 2008, I was in a head-on car collision. Firemen had to break into the remnants of my car to get me out and I had to be life-flighted to the trauma hospital.
I think we can all agree that this is a bad thing. Instead of looking at the bad in the incident, I am choosing to look at the good. "What good could come out of this?" you ask.
I am glad you asked.
- The person in the other car was able to literally walk away from the accident.
- I am alive and able to tell you about it.
- I have no broken bones - zero, none, nada, zilch - from the car accident.
- I do not require any surgery as of this moment.
- I still get spend the rest of my life with my family.
- People from my work came by to visit me at the hospital and home.
- People from church came by to visit me.
- I have aches and pains that I can feel. This is much better than the alternative. The aches and pains remind me that I am alive.
Make someone's day and perform a random act of kindness. It could be the something that someone needs to find the good in a bad event.